I too have multiple gaps, mostly in the front on my mouth (will upload pic soon, I've only just joined!). But I've figured out recently that people don't pay that much attention to appearance once they know you. It's only people I haven't met before I worry about, and I'm even learning not to care about that so much. I just have to work on habits that have developed over the years, like covering my mouth when I laugh out of embarrasment of everyone seeing my teeth..stupid! This is a great site, I'm sure you can get a lot of support : )